{"id":1061,"date":"2021-04-14T22:59:15","date_gmt":"2021-04-14T22:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/?p=1061"},"modified":"2021-04-14T22:59:55","modified_gmt":"2021-04-14T22:59:55","slug":"hurtmakesyoustronger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/en\/hurtmakesyoustronger\/","title":{"rendered":"Hurt makes you stronger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Earlier, the ceiling of the parking lot was low and the car was scratched.<\/p>\n<p>A bit sad, I know.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a shame and that I have to worry about these things, but it makes my day miserable.<\/p>\n<p>Small scratches annoying me more than big one.<\/p>\n<p>This shows how much I like to keep things clean or perfection.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d like to become a person who doesn&#8217;t mind, but it&#8217;s hard to change.<\/p>\n<p>When I dropped my newly purchased iPhone 11 Pro and the screen broke, I couldn&#8217;t hide my anger and after came sadness.<\/p>\n<p>So, I decided to think that the happened is as a human being when the something gets hurt.<\/p>\n<p>Wounds in the mind and body do not disappear or return as easily as they used to.<\/p>\n<p>Scars from experiences do not disappear easily either.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore,<\/p>\n<p>These scratches on the car are actually things that must be put it on the life when they are alive.<\/p>\n<p>They are necessary scratches. I&#8217;ve decided to think of them as necessary scratches in their live.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\/\/\/\/Hurt makes you stronger\/\/\/\/<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you get hurt, you feel sad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The reason I feel sorry when I get hurt is because my brain mistakenly thinks that scars look dirty and bad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Scars mean something to me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s not a good thing or a bad thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It is a newly created design.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It is not a good looking to bumped frames.<\/p>\n<p>It may be uncool looking.<\/p>\n<p>But if we assume that all the scars that I have made in my life is necessary, all the scars I&#8217;ve had in my life to be design, then I would love to them too.<\/p>\n<p>The scratches on my car, the damage on my iPhone, and the scars on my body and mind that I have experienced are all necessary for me to live.<\/p>\n<p>They are the reason why I am alive.<\/p>\n<p>They, too, were born in this world, and it is impossible for them to stay the same.<\/p>\n<p>We can&#8217;t stay the same.<\/p>\n<p>The more scars I have, the more forgiving for all become.<\/p>\n<p>When you think about it,<\/p>\n<p>No matter how hard things are in front of us, we can overcome them because we have scars.<\/p>\n<p>So,<\/p>\n<p>Wounds are not something to grieve, not something to hate.<\/p>\n<p>Scars are not something to be grieved or disliked, but something that is necessary to overcome the various trials of life.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Zen Jin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Earlier, the ceiling of the parking lot was low and the car was scratched. A bit sad, I know. It&#8217;s a shame and that I have to worry about these things, but it makes my day miserable. Small scratches annoying me more than big one. This shows how much I like to keep things clean [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1059,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_locale":"en_US","_original_post":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/?p=1056","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1061","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-self-analysis","8":"en-US"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1061","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1061"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1061\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1063,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1061\/revisions\/1063"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1059"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1061"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1061"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1061"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}