{"id":1157,"date":"2021-07-31T00:40:15","date_gmt":"2021-07-31T00:40:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/?p=1157"},"modified":"2022-07-16T21:50:05","modified_gmt":"2022-07-16T21:50:05","slug":"believe-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.route66.dresslake.com\/en\/believe-people\/","title":{"rendered":"To Believe the Others People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the U.S., coronavirus, which had once been under control, have started to increase cases again.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m glad that Japan was able to hold the Olympics even under these circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>On a personal page,<\/p>\n<p>Recently, I went to a charity event called 1dayLA.<\/p>\n<p>If you volunteer at a high school or pre-school for about 3 hours, you can get a free ticket to a concert.<\/p>\n<p>I attended a concert at a big new stadium featuring Justin Bieber, Jaden Smith and other great artists.<\/p>\n<p>This event was religious related and believing the Jesus that one way to change your life.\u00a0 Justin Bieber who is a famous artist, he also believes about Jesus and that he changed him.<\/p>\n<p>Many of my friends are Christians, so they often invite me to church on Sunday morning.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been to a couple of barbecues, and I find that everyone is so nice that it kind of a bit scares me.<\/p>\n<p>My first impression is that most of them are calm and peaceful.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the event, there was a speech by the organizer, and there were enthusiastic Christians and also a big funs of Justin were,,,.<\/p>\n<p>They were crying.<\/p>\n<p>They were crying and loudly agreeing with every word he said.<\/p>\n<p>For the first time in a long time, I was reminded of the cultural differences between religions and countries.<\/p>\n<p>I felt like I am a foreigner for it had been to a long time.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I was familiar with the language and life in America, I found it difficult to understand deeply just because of the differences in faith.<\/p>\n<p>At the event, we held up &#8220;love&#8221; and &#8220;Freedom&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>And said that we need to all help each other because of the situation. The speeches were wonderful.<\/p>\n<p>It was a very pleasant event,<\/p>\n<p>However, most of the people at the event were not wearing masks, and there was a gap between what they were saying and what the people were doing.<\/p>\n<p>The gap made me feel confused and unsure of what was love and helping each other.<\/p>\n<p>When I asked my Christian friends, they said that there are no Christian leaders who wear masks because it is against their religion to do so.<\/p>\n<p>My initial opinion was that wearing a mask is a way to prevent the spread of infection, and for those who have not been vaccinated, the act of not wearing a mask is itself an act that is far from love and helping each other.<\/p>\n<p>But,<\/p>\n<p>What I learned is that there are many ways to think.<\/p>\n<p>Death is not a bad thing, death is eternal life, and if we have completely different ideas about death, I can understand why we don&#8217;t care whether we wear a mask or not.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, what I&#8217;m trying to say is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It is necessary to have an accepting heart and to understand.<\/p>\n<p>I found myself assuming that they were not very trustworthy, even though I haven&#8217;t tried to know them.<\/p>\n<p>By participating in this event, I realized that I was becoming more and more close-minded, and that I was building walls and assuming they were different people because of their different beliefs and thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>In many cases,<\/p>\n<p>Can I really know that fact for myself without experiencing or acting on it?<\/p>\n<p>Relationships,<\/p>\n<p>Friends,<\/p>\n<p>Family,<\/p>\n<p>Religion,<\/p>\n<p>All of them need to be acted upon.<\/p>\n<p>Through this event, I realized how small-minded I am and how I have been assuming that I am a different person because I think differently.<\/p>\n<p>I used a topic of the masks as my subject.<\/p>\n<p>What you really need to do is acting, and have experience to really know who they are and the difference between I and them.<\/p>\n<p>When I first came to the U.S., I was very open-minded to talking anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Before coming to the U.S., I had traveled to many countries such as India and Malaysia and had a great experience, so I thought the world was one.<\/p>\n<p>After I started living in deferent contrives, I had a lot of experiences that made me misunderstanding and lose trust in many people, and I was completely shut out of the world.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time, it&#8217;s me who judges things and people and creates barriers between myself and others.<\/p>\n<p>That is way this is my fixed mindset, and it always gets in the way of having fun.<\/p>\n<p>But maybe that&#8217;s just I needed to know.<\/p>\n<p>In the past, I had no thoughts of my own and I don&#8217;t care who I am so, I could only live by conforming to others.<\/p>\n<p>If I have no thoughts of my own, how can I understand the thoughts and things of others?<\/p>\n<p>If I don&#8217;t have any thoughts of my own, I will live posseting on many things, like\u00a0religion and a partner.<\/p>\n<p>And when we are betrayed by others, we retreat into our shells out of fear because we &#8216;don&#8217;t have ourselves&#8217; or &#8216;don&#8217;t know ourselves&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>So,<\/p>\n<p>At this event, I found it kind of feeling strange to me that I had been so adamant about refusing who not wear a mask, or the mesa on Sunday without even knowing about what is it.<\/p>\n<p>I had been living my life in a defensive posture, building walls.<\/p>\n<p>Building walls and turning away from the act of trusting, and testing people&#8217;s mind from the beginning, which was making me untrusty and of course I couldn&#8217;t trust them.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think I would have felt this way if I had known about the Christian approach to death from the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>Learning about myself and others one by one in this way is very enjoyable, and one of the things I am glad that I came abroad for.<\/p>\n<p>In the past, I remember being taught in Japan that religion is very controlling and dangerous because of Aum Shinriky\u014d, Islamic extremism, etc., so I didn&#8217;t have a good image of the word &#8220;religion&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>After accepting that idea as well,<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to try to show up at the mesa that my friend is inviting me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Zen Jin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the U.S., coronavirus, which had once been under control, have started to increase cases again. 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