Today’s I am going to talk about me things.<\/p>\n
It’s been a while no dating with anyone since started covid-19 but I’ve got rejected with my friend of a girl.<\/p>\n
I hadn’t been on a date at all lately, and I’ve been in a cycle of sleeping well, eating well, doing strength training, reading, and updating my blog to get to know myself.<\/p>\n
She was a friend of my brother’s and we had known each other for four or five years.<\/p>\n
However, we only got drinks sometimes with our friends in common once in a while, and we had never hang out just two of us before.<\/p>\n
This summer was the first time we went out for dinner and beer together.<\/p>\n
We celebrated my birthday.<\/p>\n
It was the morning after we had celebrated my birthday and spent the night drinking together.<\/p>\n
After she left, I was in a strange mood and I wished we could have had spending time more.<\/p>\n
Of course, I didn’t have any romantic feelings for her before because she was dating someone else all the time, but she was very nice to me that day, so I wondered if I was mistaken or if she liked me too.<\/p>\n
I’m not very good at bargaining these days, so I told her how I felt that morning.<\/p>\n
This is going to sound safe to me, but I decided to tell her how I felt. Because she told me that her time was very important to her and so I thought it If I was going to ask her out on a date instead of as a friend, I thought it would be fair to tell her how I felt first.<\/p>\n
I know I’m just not very good at dating to hide my feelings, but…<\/p>\n
There may be a difference in timing and dating culture between Americans and Japanese. When I first came to the U.S., I went out with Americans several times, and even though I liked them, I didn’t tell them how I felt. and then I slept with them first.<\/p>\n
But this time, I chose to tell her first because she was a good friend of mine that I thought.<\/p>\n
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After that, I asked her to go to the beach as usual.<\/p>\n
She replied, “I don’t think going to the beach with you is the right thing to do since I know how you feel. So, I decided not to go.”<\/p>\n
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\/\/\/\/Telling your feelings to someone you love\/\/\/\/<\/strong><\/p>\n Telling someone how you feel is<\/strong><\/p>\n I think it’s probably the most important thing in a relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are two types of people, those who tell and those who don’t.<\/strong><\/p>\n I agree with those who do your best. CHEEERS.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I think it’s a pain in the ass to be told by someone you don’t like.<\/p>\n Or<\/p>\n If you don’t tell someone how you feel, you can just enjoy your unrequited to have a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n I’m sure there are people who would say that way.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n However, it is more beneficial for both you and someone who you like if you tell them.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The person who you like will think about it, and the boyfriend\/girlfriend will know what he or she wants to do by how he or she answers or doesn’t answer the question.<\/p>\n So, They can learn about themselves and what they want to do by how they answer or don’t answer the question. “Oh, I was thinking this way about him or her, so I’ll tell this.”<\/p>\n This is where people can pay respect to the person.<\/p>\n This is a very difficult thing to do thought. And I would be appreciated that.<\/p>\n Most people end up not answering, or just ignoring the person, because they feel uncomfortable, or they don’t think about their feelings.<\/p>\n And if he or she doesn’t express their feelings…You don’t even think about it. <\/p>\n The benefit for the person who is telling that they are being honest about their feelings and respect by themselves.<\/p>\n It takes a lot of strength to tell someone how you feel.<\/p>\n And you may hesitate to do this or that, thinking about the other person.<\/p>\n But the most important thing in life is to tell the one how you feel right now.<\/p>\n It is an event that has value just because you were able to convey it.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I don’t want to live a life where I can’t tell you that I am here and that I am living my life with these thoughts.<\/p>\n If there are people who are wondering whether to tell or not to tell<\/p>\n Please tell them.<\/p>\n Communicating is the most necessary thing in this world.<\/p>\n Even if it doesn’t go well, it’s okay.<\/p>\n It’s even more important to let people know that you exist and how you feel.<\/p>\n It is the love that you feel is the only one in the world that you should tell.<\/p>\n If you are rejected, you may think that “I am worthless,,.”<\/p>\n But that’s not true.<\/p>\n Every person has value, and being rejected will not change your value or mine, in fact, it will make us grow even more.<\/p>\n By telling people, you can grow more than you are now.<\/p>\n By all means, tell them and don’t blame yourself no matter what the result is.<\/p>\n Tell yourself, “Good job man.” That’s all you need to say.<\/p>\n That’s all you need to do in the mind.<\/p>\n Don’t think about anything else, just tell yourself I did a good job.<\/p>\n Accepting our own efforts will definitely enrich our lives.<\/p>\n It will definitely worth it in our lives.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Zen Jin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Today’s I am going to talk about me things. 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\nThat’s the saddest thing about love.<\/p>\n