I have learned a lot recently.<\/p>\n
To live my life the way I want that It takes a lot of courage.<\/p>\n
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I was always worried about what someone else would think of me, so it was difficult for me to act as I wanted to.<\/p>\n
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Lately.<\/p>\n
If I’m thinking too much or wanting to do something that I want,<\/p>\n
Then, I think maybe I could die tomorrow.<\/p>\n
I try to think that way, “Let’s do it while I still can.”<\/p>\n
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Of course, I can’t make everything into a good context, but I have made a decision to live in the present without regrets.<\/p>\n
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I think everyone is troubled and scared.<\/p>\n
I think we all worry about telling the person we love how we feel and being rejected, or<\/p>\n
Fear of failure in an important presentation at the meeting.<\/p>\n
They think about this and that, and in the end they regret not having done it their way.<\/p>\n
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I realized that this was because I was obsessed with the outcome.<\/p>\n
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The outcome,<\/p>\n
it doesn’t always come good.<\/p>\n
And once again, once a good result came to me, I began to look for the same good result again and again.<\/p>\n
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Of course, it would be nice if the results were always be good, but<\/p>\n
Most of the time, that is impossible.<\/p>\n
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In a life where you are always living within your comfort zone, there is no failure but no growth.<\/p>\n
I always want to challenge myself, even in the most difficult situations.<\/p>\n
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Therefore, I have decided not to worry about the outcome.<\/p>\n
I have decided to let go of my obsession with results, and<\/p>\n
I decided to enjoy the process.<\/p>\n
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So, to put it in an extreme way to say, it also means that there will be no results until I die.<\/p>\n
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Just like water flows.<\/p>\n
I will be satisfied with my life if I just flow and move harder in the present and take action now, no matter where I end up.<\/p>\n
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I prioritize action over thinking with my head, and<\/p>\n
I decided to enjoy the process a lot.<\/p>\n
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If I could take action and not be scared of the outcome without a doubt, we can live in the present moment.<\/p>\n
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What I am really afraid of is<\/p>\n
It is to end up not doing what I want to do.<\/p>\n
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So,<\/p>\n
Live each day to the fullest, that is I can be happy for sure.<\/p>\n
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ZenJin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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