Having a good coffee at the usual Starbucks will soothe me.<\/p>\n
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Earlier today.<\/p>\n
I was suddenly thinking about possibilities.<\/p>\n
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Possibility is<\/p>\n
It is a state where you are not sure if things are possible, but they are probable.<\/p>\n
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I have been able to accomplish many seemingly impossible things that I have experienced since I was a kid many years ago, and I have made it this far because I have believed in that possibility.<\/p>\n
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Sometimes I can’t\u00a0believe in something\u00a0with difficulty.<\/p>\n
Nowadays, for me it is\u00a0“ballroom dancing”.<\/p>\n
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Ballroom dancing,<\/p>\n
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It is very difficult for leading\u00a0ladies, and besides, mistakes are usual.<\/p>\n
It is embarrassing and frustrating.<\/p>\n
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I wondered if I would ever really be able to dance well.<\/p>\n
I became extremely afraid of making mistakes.<\/p>\n
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I feel that it is something that has been created since I was in Japan.<\/p>\n
If I express my opinion or do something wrong, people around me get angry or make fun of me.<\/p>\n
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I had a dream about becoming a soccer player in my childhood.<\/p>\n
I gave up because I was bullied by my teammates for not doing well and losing passion to play.<\/p>\n
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If only I had believed in my skills and in myself at that time.<\/p>\n
Things that I would have fought for undaunted.<\/p>\n
As a result, I was losing to myself.<\/p>\n
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This is something I still think about even now as an adult.<\/p>\n
I can’t make a mistake.<\/p>\n
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I remember when I finally learned to ride a bicycle after falling and getting hurt.<\/p>\n
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Making the impossible to change it possible,<\/p>\n
It is not to believe in the impossible, but to believe in the possible and keep moving forward.<\/p>\n
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It’s the messing up of this that makes<\/p>\n
People who make fun of you with mistakes<\/p>\n
Parents who don’t tolerate mistakes<\/p>\n
The friends who using you or mounting you,<\/p>\n
And the biggest culprit is myself, who created\u00a0a fear inside.<\/p>\n
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This has always hindered my potential.<\/p>\n
Dancing is really difficult to make it fun while leading with a smile in front of the girls.<\/p>\n
I’m afraid, I’m not good at it, I’m pathetic, and I want to hide.<\/p>\n
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In relationship,<\/p>\n
Or a work presentation,<\/p>\n
And at the important game.<\/p>\n
When the time comes, my heart starts to move fast and my hands start to shake.<\/p>\n
As a result, It sucks.<\/p>\n
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So what can we do to eliminate this intention and fear?<\/p>\n
This is the only way to think that failure is a possibility.<\/p>\n
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So let’s fail a lot! This is the only way to do it.<\/p>\n
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A person feels fear only about 167 milliseconds after seeing or hearing the feared object, and it is transmitted to the brain.<\/p>\n
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Therefore,<\/p>\n
Avoidance will be difficult.<\/p>\n
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In actions that would alleviate that deep breathing definitely make you calm.<\/p>\n
I tried to have a beer before nervousness, but it made me sleepy and I couldn’t speak well,,, lol<\/p>\n
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Fear of failure is not a bad thing.<\/p>\n
There is no doubt that it reduces our chances, but we have to try not to be afraid of that failure.<\/p>\n
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The way to avoid the fear of failure is to create your experience, patience, and the notion of failure is not bad.<\/p>\n
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Anyway, in Japan, I have had the experience of being pointed out every time I fail at something in several environments, and failure was considered a bad thing.
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However, I believe in my own potential and I am determined to keep on trying.<\/p>\n
I believe that it is necessary to believe in myself.<\/p>\n
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In the beginning of the dance, I believe that fear of failure, getting used to it, and perseverance will increase our potential and help us develop the ability to handle difficult things.<\/p>\n
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First, we need to fundamentally rethink failure and let it be input into our brains.<\/p>\n
It doesn’t matter if you are not good at it.<\/p>\n
It is okay to fail.<\/p>\n
It doesn’t matter if you get angry at\u00a0people, or if they hate you.<\/p>\n
It’s okay if they make fun of you, because one day you will be able to do it.<\/p>\n
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The trick is to keep your distance from those who make fun of you, because it is very effective.<\/p>\n
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In fact, I have cut off all relations with people who mounting me for doing so, or who deny what I want to do out of the top of their heads.<\/p>\n
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I think this is very important, not only to build relationships with people who only say nice things, but also to prevent people from thinking “I can’t do it”.<\/p>\n
Things are never impossible.<\/p>\n
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It is possible if you believe in the possibilities and do the research.<\/p>\n
The same was true for reaching the moon.<\/p>\n
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It\u00a0is not impossible.<\/p>\n
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Nothing is impossible.<\/p>\n
It may be difficult, but it is not impossible.<\/p>\n
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That is why<\/p>\n
I know I can do it, no matter what people say.<\/p>\n
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Tell your brain that it is possible, and make in yourself an angel.<\/p>\n
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To make things possible, it is more necessary than anything else to have a dialogue with me, who is essentially your best ally.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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