Have you ever really thought about what kind of person you want to be?<\/p>\n
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For me is,<\/p>\n
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Since I started talking to myself a little bit<\/p>\n
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I am able to practice and act on my thoughts more often.<\/p>\n
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I am able to do what I think is impossible for me.<\/p>\n
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I mean that it wasn’t always with a good outcome but at least, I do not regret it.<\/p>\n
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I try to think, “This is coming to me because I can do it,” rather than thinking, “I can’t do this.”<\/p>\n
Sometimes I still get depressed when I don’t get results, lose confidence, and wonder why things don’t work out because I’m not good enough.<\/p>\n
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When you think that.<\/p>\n
I breathe and focus on the present.<\/p>\n
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By doing so, I am able to return to the leading role in my life.<\/p>\n
I try to think that everything that happens around me is the result of my brain thinking and making it.<\/p>\n
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If something is currently going wrong, it is because<\/p>\n
I followed it, and only thinking so it myself.<\/p>\n
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But, I can change it immediately.<\/p>\n
it has to change our thinking, change the way you think that I can do it.<\/p>\n
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I am not an incapable person.<\/p>\n
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I’m not stupid, I’m not worthless, I’m not bad at doing everything,<\/p>\n
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We’re alive on this earth.<\/p>\n
It is given to us to live life the way we want to live it.<\/p>\n
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If you want money, you can be rich. If you want to have a nice family with your girlfriend or wife, you can have a nice family.<\/p>\n
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You can dance, or do whatever you are not able to do well now, because you were made to do it, so that is why you are interested in it.<\/p>\n
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There is nothing that I can’t do.<\/p>\n
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It is not at all easy to admit to yourself.<\/p>\n
First of all, for every day, every moments, living like the person you want to be is certainly the way to make it happen.<\/p>\n
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I want to have a happy family.<\/p>\n
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But why is it so difficult for me to meet someone like that?<\/p>\n
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Because,<\/p>\n
I am always under the impression that it will not work out with someone I have a liking for, or that<\/p>\n
Deep down, I thought that marriage or sharing my life with someone was impossible for me, and this was the cause of it confusing a reality between my hopes.<\/p>\n
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At the same time, I am unable to trust people.<\/p>\n
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Therefore, I am suspicious of any person at first.<\/p>\n
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When I invite people who always try to befriend me with a smile, they often do not contact me.<\/p>\n
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The kind of me I want to be now is trusting people and opening my heart to them.<\/p>\n
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What does it take to do that?<\/p>\n
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It is.<\/p>\n
First of all, go with an open-minded in any situation with any people.<\/p>\n
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Even if I’m rejected.<\/p>\n
Even if they separated from me.<\/p>\n
Anyway, \u00a0I would try to be open to the people.<\/p>\n
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I often wondered why I didn’t get a mail back, but<\/p>\n
I thought, well, that’s enough.<\/p>\n
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Even if friendships and romantic relationships don’t work out, I think about whether I have been able to open my heart and mind even a little bit more openly, and I don’t worry about the outcome.<\/p>\n
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I try to open up and talk to the people around me.<\/p>\n
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So….<\/p>\n
The kind of me I want to be is<\/p>\n
Communicate with no fear of anyone.<\/p>\n
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There is nothing to fear.<\/p>\n
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Relationships are probably the most difficult thing to deal with, aren’t they?<\/p>\n
It makes it worse by making yourself feel afraid to talk to anyone.<\/p>\n
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Aren’t English conversations or speaking a new language good examples?<\/p>\n
People are afraid to speak because they are afraid of making mistakes and don’t want to be embarrassed.<\/p>\n
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But in fact, isn’t it more shameful not to be able to speak?<\/p>\n
You are the one denying yourself and blaming yourself for your mistakes.<\/p>\n
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No one cares about your mistakes.<\/p>\n
people are not making fun of you.<\/p>\n
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If someone does, it is a learning experience.<\/p>\n
It tells me that I don’t have to be with those people.<\/p>\n
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Let’s talk without fear.<\/p>\n
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If I can do this repeatedly, I will be what I wanna be.<\/p>\n
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